Matthew 16:24-26 - Counting the Cost of Following Jesus

 Matthew 16:24-26
“If anyone wants to come after Me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow Me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for Me will find it. What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?”

At first glance, these words sound simple. But if you’ve ever tried to live them, you know they are anything but easy. They are beautifully clear, and wonderfully uncomfortable at the same time.

Take a minute and seriously look at what Jesus says:

“Deny yourself.” He’s telling us that following Him doesn’t work if our first priority is our own comfort, convenience, or ego. Discipleship starts with humility and surrender, not self-centered planning.

“Take up your cross.” Following Jesus will cost something. It may cost you comfort, time, approval, or even reputation. The path of faith isn’t paved with guarantees—it’s only paved with trust.

“Follow Me.” He didn’t say just sometimes. Or just when it’s convenient. He asks that you are all in! Following in every part of your life matters.

And here’s the part that really flips our expectation on its head:  Jesus says if we try to save our own lives—if we live only for comfort, security, or success—we are going to lose them. But if we surrender our lives for Him, we truly find them. The logic is upside-down from what the world is giving out:  what seems like “loss” is actually gain, and what seems like “saving” is actually destruction.

And–let’s be honest about it:  that is not an easy thing to read. Most, if not all of us, want to hold onto what we have. We like to protect our comfort, control our schedules, and preserve our plans. And many of us try to do both—follow Jesus, while at the same time keeping our own priorities firmly in place. But here is a spoiler alert:  it doesn’t work that way. You can’t serve two masters.

But there’s good news in all of this:  following Jesus is worth it. The world promises success, comfort, and fleeting pleasures, but only Jesus gives life that is deep, meaningful, and eternal. It doesn’t mean life will always be easy. But it does mean it will be real. It will be full. It will matter — forever.

So the real question isn’t, “Can I squeeze Jesus into my life?” It’s, “Am I living for Him, or am I living for myself?”

Because when we put Jesus first, everything changes. Our relationships become richer, our work becomes more purposeful, and even the struggles of life gain meaning. When we lose our lives for Christ, we discover life in the truest, deepest sense.

The choice Jesus lays before us is simple—but not easy:  deny ourselves, take up our cross, and follow Him. It costs something. But the reward is everything. Eternal life. True joy. Peace that doesn’t depend on circumstances. A purpose that reaches far beyond what we could ever accomplish on our own.

So the question remains:  Are we willing to let go of the things that weigh us down? Are we willing to surrender what the world says is important for what God says is eternal?

Because following Christ isn’t about comfort. It isn’t about avoiding trouble. It’s about gaining something infinitely more valuable—life itself, found only in Him.

Matthew 4:4 - Food for the Soul

Matthew 4:4

Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”

I love to eat - admittedly, too much at times. You can keep your steak and potatoes, to me, there’s nothing quite like the comforting aroma of a freshly baked casserole, bubbling with cheese and filled with layers of savory goodness. Whether it’s a hearty lasagna, hot “Chicken Mexicana”, or even a classic green bean casserole, food has a way of bringing joy, warmth, and satisfaction to our lives. But as much as I cherish these earthly delights, I know that food, and all things of this world, pale in comparison to the things of Heaven. It’s essential to keep this perspective in mind, especially when we consider the teachings of Jesus in Matthew 4:4.

After fasting for 40 days in the wilderness (Matthew 4:4), Jesus responds to the devil’s temptation by saying, “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.” This profound statement reminds us that while food nourishes our bodies, it is God's word that truly sustains us. The physical nourishment we receive from food is temporary and fleeting, but the spiritual nourishment we gain from God’s word is eternal and life-giving.

Jesus' response teaches us that the things of this world, even something as essential as food, must be put into perspective. The world offers many things that can satisfy us temporarily—food, wealth, success, and comfort—but these are fleeting. In contrast, the words of God offer lasting fulfillment and guide us toward eternal life.

This principle is echoed throughout Scripture. In Deuteronomy 8:3, Moses reminds the Israelites that God humbled them and allowed them to hunger so that they might learn, “man does not live by bread alone, but man lives by every word that comes from the mouth of the Lord.” God’s provision goes beyond physical needs and extends to spiritual sustenance.

In John 6:35, Jesus declares, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst.” Here, Jesus identifies Himself as the ultimate source of spiritual nourishment. While casseroles may satisfy our physical hunger, only Jesus, the Bread of Life, can satisfy our spiritual hunger and thirst.

Matthew 4:4 also highlights the importance of relying on Scripture to guide our lives. Jesus, in His moment of physical weakness, turns to Scripture for strength and guidance. Jesus models for us the importance of immersing ourselves in God’s word, allowing it to be our anchor in times of temptation and trial. Psalm 119:105 reflects this truth by saying, “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” It’s God’s word that illuminates our way and sustains us through life’s challenges.

The verse also reminds us to trust in God’s provision. In a world where we’re often tempted to rely on our own efforts to meet our needs, Jesus shows us that true reliance is on God alone. Philippians 4:19 assures us, “And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” When we trust in God’s provision, we acknowledge that He knows our needs better than we do and that He will provide for us in ways that are far beyond what this world can offer.

So while I may love casseroles and all the wonderful foods this world has to offer, I know that they are only temporary pleasures. The word of God, the Bread of Life, offers sustenance that will carry us through this life and into eternity. Let us remember to prioritize the spiritual over the physical, to rely on Scripture for guidance, and to trust in God’s unfailing provision. In doing so, we’ll find that the things of this world, as delightful as they may be, truly pale in comparison to the things of Heaven.