Romans 8:6 - Life, Peace, and the Trouble with Carnal Thinking

Romans 8:6
The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace.

Paul wrote, “For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace” (Romans 8:6 NKJV). That’s not just religious talk — it’s a reality check. What we set our minds on truly shapes our lives. And let’s be honest:  sometimes what we see in ourselves (and in the church) looks a lot more like carnality than spirituality.

You can spot the difference pretty quickly, though. Ever notice how some folks will go to a ball game in the pouring rain, but a drizzle on Sunday morning is enough to cancel worship? Or how we can feel “too sick” for church, but somehow well enough to drag ourselves to work Monday morning? That’s not dedication — that’s our priorities showing up.

Spirituality isn’t about checking a box or showing up when the weather’s nice. It’s about valuing God more than comfort, convenience, or culture. It’s about setting our minds on “things above, not on earthly things” (Colossians 3:2).

When we’re spiritually minded, we see worship not as optional but essential. We notice the brother or sister who’s drifting and reach out to restore them (Galatians 6:1). We understand our whole life is meant to be a “living sacrifice” (Romans 12:1), not just an hour on Sunday.

The truth is, carnality always weakens the church and turns people away from Christ. But spirituality breathes life, strength, and peace into both our souls and our community. And here’s the best part: it’s not reserved for “super saints.” It grows in ordinary Christians who are willing to stay in God’s Word, pray, and walk daily in the Spirit (Galatians 5:25).

Carnal thinking leaves us empty, but spiritual living fills us with life and peace. And honestly, who doesn’t want more of that?

John 3:1-3 - Nicodemus: From Darkness to Light

John 3:1-3
Now there was a Pharisee, a man named Nicodemus who was a member of the Jewish ruling council. He came to Jesus at night and said, “Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God. For no one could perform the signs you are doing if God were not with him.”
Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.”

Nicodemus is one of those fascinating figures we read of in the Gospel of John. He wasn’t a fisherman, tax collector, or ordinary person like many of Jesus’ other followers. He was a Pharisee—a respected religious teacher, an expert in Scripture, and a member of the Jewish ruling council. In other words, Nicodemus was the kind of man people looked up to for answers.

And yet, when we read of him coming to Jesus in John 3, he came at night. It is possible he didn’t want his colleagues to see him. Maybe he was afraid of what others would think. Or he simply wanted a private conversation with the teacher who was performing all of the miracles he was hearing about. Whatever the reason, John makes it clear that Nicodemus came to Jesus “in the dark.”

When he opened the conversation, Nicodemus sounded respectful: “Rabbi, we know you are a teacher who has come from God.” But as Jesus often did, He immediately cut to the heart of the matter:  “No one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again.” Nicodemus was stunned. He thought Jesus meant a physical rebirth, and he couldn’t understand. Jesus was really saying, “You need a spiritual rebirth—from above, by water and the Spirit.”

This was shocking for a man like Nicodemus. His entire life was built on his study of the Scriptures, Jewish traditions of the Rabbis, and his careful obedience to the Law. But Jesus told him plainly:  Eternal life isn’t found in rules or knowledge. It comes only by being born again, born from above, through faith in the Son of God.

To make His point, Jesus reminded Nicodemus of the story in Numbers 21, when God told Moses to lift up a bronze serpent so that the dying Israelites who were snake-bitten could look at it and live. In a similar way, Jesus would be lifted up on the cross, and whoever looked to Him in faith would find eternal life. This is the context of the verse we all know so well: “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life” - John 3:16.

Nicodemus didn’t fully believe that night. But his journey didn’t end there. Later in John 7, he cautiously defended Jesus in front of his peers. And finally, after the crucifixion, Nicodemus brought a very costly gift of burial spices and helped Joseph of Arimathea bury Jesus. That act was public, costly, and courageous. It was Nicodemus’ way of stepping out of the shadows and into the light.

His story reminds us that faith is often a journey. Some of us begin with curiosity, asking our own questions in the dark. Others cautiously defend Jesus but hesitate to commit fully. But in the end, real faith calls us to step boldly into the light, no matter the cost.

Nicodemus challenges us with one big question:  Are we still hiding in the dark, or are we ready to step into the light of Christ and be born from above?

Romans 12:2 - Seeing Through the "Shades of Grey"

Romans 12:2
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.

When I was young, the world often seemed so simple—right was right, and wrong was wrong. The lines were clear, the choices were obvious. But as I have grown older, something has happened. Life feels more complicated. What was once black and white has begun to blur, and find myself navigating a world full of gray areas.

These “shades of gray” often come with complicated explanations and justifications. I hear words like “context,” “situation,” or “perspective.” And while there is true wisdom in understanding circumstances, I must also recognize the danger: if I’m not careful, I may start conforming to the world’s way of thinking rather than seeking God’s clear will.

Romans 12:2 offers timely guidance: “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

Paul is reminding us that the Christian life requires intention. Conforming is easy—you just need to be passive. Transformation, on the other hand, takes action. It’s a conscious choice to think differently and let God reshape our minds.

You and I live in a world that seems to almost celebrate compromise and confusion. But God calls us to clarity, to spiritual discernment. As 1 John 2:15-17 teaches, loving the world means turning away from the Father. The world’s desires are temporary, but doing God’s will leads to eternal life.

To truly see through the gray, we must learn to “prove”—to test and discern—what is good and right in God’s eyes. The spiritually minded person doesn’t base their decisions on feelings or trends, but instead, they look to God’s truth. In 2 Corinthians 5:16, Paul says we no longer view anyone from a worldly perspective. Our minds, our hearts, and our wills must be guided by the mind of Christ (Philippians 2:5).

The renewal of the Christian’s mind is not a one-time event—it’s a daily journey. And yes, it can be hard. It might mean facing uncomfortable truths about ourselves or letting go of the world’s approval. But to remain comfortable in the world’s thinking is to risk being lost.

So let’s commit to the hard, beautiful work of transformation. Let’s seek clarity in a world of confusion. Let’s fix our minds on Christ and strive to think, feel, and act more like Him each day.

Because when we start seeing through the gray with the light of God’s truth, we’ll discover that His will isn’t cloudy or vague—it’s good, pleasing, and perfect.